I will never hurt people the way they hurt me

Hey lovely bloggers 💕,

I saw this beautiful quote/thought on Instagram and just have to share a little story why I can relate to it so much 💕💫💭 

During my childhood people have bullied me a lot. Even people who I considered my friend have hurt me a lot. I never had a fight with anybody in my life but words hurt too. Words can chase you your whole life. If you had someone in your life that tells you every day that you are ugly and not worth it, sooner or later you gonna believe in it and feel horrible. 

I’m glad I don’t have to go back to highschool anymore because it was the worst time of my life. I had so many people saying mean stuff to me and hurting me that at one point I just didn’t like to go school anymore. This also increased my anxiety and the feeling of just never feeling good enough. That feeling of being worthless no matter what you do. That’s just the worst.

I won’t say about myself that I am always kind and good to people. There are times where I also did bad things to friends and they did to me. We all make mistakes. We are human. We learn from it and grow. 

However, I never hurt people so hard as they hurt me. I would never call somebody ugly or say that they are worthless. I would never make fun of somebody who is sick. I will treat everybody with respect, kindness and love 💕

I’m a highly sensitive person and get easily upset when somebody hurt me. It’s just as this quote says I would never hurt somebody the way they hurt me. I believe in the good people in the world. If anybody is experiencing that someone is hurting them in their life, I would encourage you to leave this person. A friend would never hurt you. Make real friends who lift you up and who will always be there for you 💕 I’m so glad I did and met the most wonderful people in my life. I love you all! 💜👏

Much love,

xoxo


6 thoughts on “I will never hurt people the way they hurt me

  1. I’m so sorry you have to experience those things before. But know that I am so proud of you for not doing revenge. Sometimes, we really just have to be the better person. And that’s what you’re doing. 🙂

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    1. Thank you so much for your lovely words! 💜 Yeah, you are so right. It’s so much better to be the better person than hurting other people. It’s just not worth it.

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  2. I was also bullied a lot because I was the smallest kid in each grade and kind to the outcasts. I know how you feel. I did have to physically fight a couple of bullies, which was not fun. But I prevailed, and then I had less trouble at least in one place. There is a warrior in each of us, I guess.

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    1. Thank you so much for your comment! 💕👏 Being bullied is just the worst feeling ever. Sometimes we have to fight back if only it is to save us. You did the right thing 👏 You are right, we are all warriors and beat them 💪

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  3. Its sooo important to not lash back when people have hurt us, no matter how deeply. I am so happy that you’re choosing love and kindness over getting back at anyone. That’s the caring and beautiful thing to do and something I’m trying to do as well. ❤

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